Sunday, April 27, 2008

The best decisions are made with your head and you heart


We all agree that we should carefully and rationally think through life changing decisions. It’s just as important when making these decisions not to neglect your emotional feelings.

When you carefully consider your feelings before making a final commitment you can save yourself a lot of heartache and frustration. There is peace in knowing that the decisions you make are the right ones for you when they reflect a balanced mix of rational thought and emotion,

Next time you’re faced with an importance choice, combine the power of your head with your heart.

You’ll know you made the right decision.

I use my head and my heart when making decisions

Thursday, April 24, 2008

Sweetness of the "Patience"

Sweetness is the ability to see the good in all things. Deep within each and every situation is something good. It only takes a little patience to look within and find it. When we are able to understand the secret behind what is happening, it automatically brings sweetness in our lives. Thus we will be able to spread this to others too. Whatever happens throughout the day, we should be able to see the good in it. Even if we are not able to discover something good at that moment, we should maintain the faith that whatever happens is for the best.

Sweetness of the "Patience"

Sweetness is the ability to see the good in all things. Deep within each and every situation is something good. It only takes a little patience to look within and find it. When we are able to understand the secret behind what is happening, it automatically brings sweetness in our lives. Thus we will be able to spread this to others too. Whatever happens throughout the day, we should be able to see the good in it. Even if we are not able to discover something good at that moment, we should maintain the faith that whatever happens is for the best.

When you journey within, you're never without

Your internal wisdom is the part of you that knows what is true and best for you. Each one of us is born with this gift yet it often gets lost in a sea of external voices, opinions and judgments.

Its time to recapture this priceless gift!

Make a time and a place when all you have to do is concentrate on yourself - not the children, pets, your boss, your coworkers, your unfinished laundry or your list of errands.

Make this special place a quiet zone and sanctuary. Close your eyes and listen to your thoughts. Be at one with yourself and quietly tap into your internal wisdom.

If this is new to you, be patient. It may take time. But, as you listen carefully, you will gradually come to know that the greatest wisdom is inside your heart.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

The sooner you focus on your visions, the sooner they will thrive

We all know women with big ideas that can’t seem to make them materialize. Are you one of these women? Big ideas and grand visions are never enough. They must be accompanied by a sharp focus.

When you focus on your visions, you gain a sense of personal power, a feeling that you are talking control of your life. Both self-respect and self-esteem get a definite boost, as you learn to consciously stay focused on the positive results you seek.

Don’t waste another day! Stay true to your visions and never lose focus. Before you know it you will be living and breathing your dreams.

Remaining focused on my visions empowers me.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Life flourishes when you let go of resentment

Resentment is like a parasite. It feeds on you and leaves you weakened by its presence. Its only purpose is to take from you – and take it will.

Break free and shake resentment off! There’s simply no room in your life for this negative energy. You have so much to do and so many places to go. If you let resentment get in the way you’ll never reach your potential.

Start by focusing on what you do have, not on what is lacking. Stop fretting about what should have been, and concentrate on what could be, Forgive, forget, and move on.

Let go of resentment today and you’ll amazed by all the space it leaves in your life for better things.

I am free of all resentment

Are you avoiding conflict?

Do you avoid speaking your mind because you don’t want to rock the boat? Do you feel it’s just easier to avoid conflict?

When you don’t take initiative and express your own wants and needs, others make decisions for you - and chances are, they won't always make the decisions you want! If this goes on long enough, you will start to feel misunderstood or taken for granted. Anger and resentment will grow and you'll eventually erupt.

You are the only one who can decide to change this behavior!

Next time you're asked what you want, don't rush to say you don't care, stop and ask yourself, "What do I want?" Then, share it with conviction.

I'm confident in expressing my own wants and needs